Do you have a guy friend, who is so close with you that you guys talk about anything and everything?

I think that having male friends are actually more comfortable and easy than having female friends. Maybe given the personality and characteristic I'm born with, I tends to clique with guys easier than girls. I'm more open minded, more open with topics (I mean, there's no restrictions of topics to talk about). And maybe because these, I get to clique with guys more.

Ever since primary school, I'm closer to guys than girls. Me and my best friend, Lam Weiting, always tend to hang out at the field while the other girls are like in the canteen during recess time. Me and Weiting will always play basketball, or just go to the field and chill with the boys (I forgot who) And I remember, whenever I drink water from the bottle at the basketball field, I will get hit by the incoming ball which cause my teeth to bled. #badluckruijia but I still enjoy the times there.

My whole primary school years, I'm close with guys, hang out with guys. Although I still have girl friends, but nothing beats the comparability with males.

In secondary school, tried to open up more to female friends, but end up, all I get was trouble. So I think, sticking to guys are safer (in a way) But of course, I won't deny that having my 5 fav girls are the best la. Cause they're always there to help me, that's why even now when I hardly talk to them anymore, I still miss and love the time spent together.

When I come to Polytechnic, it's worst! My class only have like 6 girls(including me) For my previous clique was like 6 guys and 4 girls? And now my current clique is like 7 guys and I'm the only girl, and I repeat, I'M THE ONLY GIRL. I'm treated more like a "bro" to them than a girl to them. Whoop!

Even when I go Japan with school, I went with 4 of my guys. And even when I'm there in Japan, during the tour, I managed to get closer with guys than girls. I've no idea why, but to me, it's really easier to clique with guys than girls. Hmmmm.

It's just more comfortable for me to talk to guys, it's like no boundaries, no restricted topics, no worries of hurting them with topics (i mean like, sometimes when you talk to girls, you need to think properly before talking).

I'd this very close guy friend, so close that everyone thought he's my boyfriend. He's JordanK, and he was once my suitor. We are close since a year back, we quarreled, we fought, we cut contact. But no matter what shit we're in, what nonsense we've been thru, we still came out strong and close. It's a kind of closeness that a couple should have, but the fact is, we aren't together at all.

In conclusion, I still think, having guy friends, are like so comfortable, and make me feel more easy than I'm with girl?