I do think about these questions too, and at the end of the day, I came to realize that "love" is a feeling. You can't simply deny that love does not exist in your life, neither can you deny that you have not love at all.

Reason for me saying those, is simply because from the moment you're born, you're either in love or you're loved. To me, I personally think that you're being loved by your parents the moment you're born. Love already exist in your life. Even when you're born with single parent, or you grow up in orphanage, love still exist. Cause people around you will still love you, for who you are.

What I am trying to say here, is that you're already born in the world of love.

There's actually different type of love in the world,

Let me talk about the two most important love...

It's a type of love you can't deny, a type of love you receive from the moment you're born. Yes, some might say, they don't receive love from their parents. But look, if they don't love you, why would they even give birth to you? Bring you to life? Some parents don't show their love to you directly, but that doesn't mean they don't love you. Yes, they might be a nuisance at times, scolding you for your doings, giving you stress and stuffs, but hey, that's a form or a way for them to show you that they love you! They gave birth to you, they want the best for you. They might set their expectations for you high, but that's because they want you to have a better life. They see more things than us, so they don't wish that we will walk a way that we will regret in the future.

Yes, I admit I do curse them sometimes because of their nuisance, but at the end of the day, they're doing all these because they care, they love us. Even when we curse and swore and say we hate them, they're just doing their responsibility. And even when the skies falls, your parents are always there for you. They are your pillar, your support, your strength.

So, don't forget to love your parents because they love you no matter what.

Relationships. Actually love from opposite gender is rather complicated. It's not as easy as it is. Reason being some people will give wrong signal and lead you on, and in the end, you'll get hurt. I think, no matter how many times you're hurt in a relationship, you shouldn't give up on loving. Cause not everyone are the same. You should never judge that all guys/girls are the same, just because someone hurt you before. Remember, not all guys/girls are the same.

Being hurt is something very common in a relationship. But one thing you must never do, is to expect too much from your love or relationship. Because once you set your expectations too high, and you partner can't fulfill it, you'll feel disappointment, and things between the two of you, will start to change.

Just remember, never punish your NEXT because of your EX.


So, don't stop loving just because you got hurt before.